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IT’S OUT OF THE BAG

The cat (and a few other things) are out of the bag.

After a few days at Riverside, I finally had to pack up and head back to the real world.

Damn, work can get in the way of your life, can’t it? As I’m saying goodbye to my good buddies, Patrick gives me a hug and says “see you on the 15th”, Greg shoots him a dirty look, not sexy dirty, but “Dude, he’s not suppose to know” dirty.

As far as I know – up to this point – the 15th is a brunch that Justin and his hubbies are planning for me, followed by a little frolic (as often happens at their place) for my birthday. Now I know differently, but I have to backtrack a little.

A few months ago, after a particularly experimental session Justin and I were lolling about in a sweaty mass of post coital glow when the topic turned to unfulfilled sexual fantasies. Well, neither Justin or I have been particularly reticent in this department, so the list was small…unless you include truly fantastic fantasies (I have yet to have sex with an actual satyr) but there was one thing that had never quite come together, butt – and this is a big butt – it’s happening on the 15th.

My awesome man is planning a gang bang on my birthday.

Followed by a lovely brunch of course…we have to be civilized about these things.

Now…I need to get my hands on that guest list…and the guests. I promise a full report when it’s over and I’ve recovered.

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The Skye has no limits…at least with me

It’s no secret that I love porn, but what might be a little less known is that I have a favourite porn actor. I have a HUGE crush on Manuel Skye…seriously, check this dude out. Of course, there are the obvious reasons, he’s hung, muscled and handsome. He’s also an awesome top, but with just a little research it’s easy to find out that he’s also smart, practices Yoga (that would explain the awesome flexibility) and has a very strong spiritual side. For me, this is an awesome mix. Add to the mix that he’s Canadian (the French accent is a big turn on) and I’ve got a slam dunk. SLAM DUNK? OMG he’s got me using sports metaphors, he must be good.

When I was growing up, closeted, conservative and very religious there was no place for sex and spirituality to mix. Even in a church approved marriage, sex was not only allowed, but even encouraged and expected, they could happen along side each other – – – under ordained circumstances but they were always separate, spirit and sex never merged.  

Then I discovered Tantric massage and my life changed, sex could be a spiritual experience. My first experience was through the Body Electric School in New York City, and I’ve since developed it further through The Awaken Studio here in Toronto. Sex and physical pleasure can be a distraction, an amusement, a way to connect with another person, even a way to create new life, but it can also bring us closer to our true selves and to something much greater than ourselves, and THAT, my friends, is always a spiritual experience. Now, if you’ll excuse me, I’m going to have a spiritual experience with a certain French Canadian porn star and my own holy hands.

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Porn vs. Erotica

Writing out my session with Justin and Adam (one of his husbands) as my next erotic story is taking longer than expected. Not only do I keep stopping to release the pressure in my pants. Damn that was a good afternoon., but I keep wondering if I’m writing porn or erotica, not that it matters, I’m a big fan of both, but these are the things that send me down very sexy and often time-consuming rabbit holes. I guess I could do a little research on the subject, but that’s not as much fun for this nerd-a-luscious dude as wandering around in my own brain.  

What IS the difference between porn and erotica? For me, it’s not the graphic details, I’m including a lot of those and it’s definitely not the subject matter, my erotica is about SEX. So, what is it?

I’ve settled on this: Porn is about the sex and only sex. Erotica is about more than that, it brings in character, situation, relationships. In the same way that a good song in a musical isn’t just a good song; it also has to reveal character or advance the plot, in erotica good sex isn’t just good sex, it is integral to the life of the character and their story…in this case me. My romp with Justin and Adam was definitely integral.

Damn, now I have to go release a little more pressure.

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