Why Woof the Woof?

I’ve connected with a lot of guys on line. Some have become friends, some have become friends with benefits, some have become very good friends with excellent benefits and some were great fucks. Lately I’ve discovered that I’m not overly interested in connecting. Justin (who I met on line BTW) is keeping me very busy in that department and even though we have a very open Poly relationship I’m finding myself not overly interested in connecting in person…yet still I “WOOF”.

Why Woof if I’m not planning to meat anyone? I’ll admit, that sometimes I wander the “dating” sites in the same way I’d wander the Bath Houses, checking things out, open to possibilities but not desperate for them.

Lately I’ve realized that it’s more than that. Every time I get a woof or a like or a thumbs up or a “how you doing?” it’s a little ego boost, a little pat on the back, a little validation. The nerdy, lonely, closeted teen I used to be stands a little taller and feels a little of the love. That hit draws me in.

Maybe I should be at a place in my life where I don’t need validation from strangers and I’m working toward it. In the mean time, thanks for the woofs, be good to each other and know that if I woof you, it’s because you’re totally Woof worthy.

Oh, BTW

WOOF!